Janet, Knowing Tom and his good & kind soul, we know your path forward without him will be a difficult one. A small consolation is knowing that Tom loved you whole-heartedly and completely. You and the family meant literally the world to him and he had much to be proud of. Bernie always spoke of what a wonderful big brother Tom was. Being ten years older, Tom could have easily ignored him, but instead he embraced, loved and nurtured Bernie, who will always be grateful for that love. Tom's memory will live on through the many kindnesses he bestowed throughout a life well lived. In sadness and deep sorrow, Bernie & Kathy